Dear Conflict Resolution Networker,
It's the
festive season and Conflict Resolution Network’s Thought for the
Month is about the power of forgiveness. At this time of goodwill, you
might want to take a moment to consider if there is something you are
holding against another person. Are you willing to forgive them for
that?
You may still
be too angry or upset to really wipe the slate clean, but perhaps
you can take a first step – to notice that at least you are
willing to become willing to forgive.
You may decide to discuss the problem with that person or
choose not to.
Either way, the
moment you make any inroads into releasing yourself
from anger or resentment, something will shift. You
almost always find yourself happier and somehow lighter.
While there’s no guarantee, it may even free the other person to
change too.
Our book, Everyone Can Win, suggests
that “Forgiving is a shift in attitude that arises from yourself,
an inner shift that comes from the heart.” (p.145)
Every good wish
to you and your dear ones for 2008,
The team at the Conflict Resolution
Network
We invite you to download and/or print the .pdf file for your notice
board and to share it with others:
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